Second Spring
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Saturday-Sunday, May 23-24, 2026
Infirmities threaten us as we superannuate, oddly returning us to the helplessness of infancy. Or so it has been often observed. A person starts out in life bald and toothless, poorly sighted, unable to make sense of sounds, ignorant and with much to learn. At the other end of life, assuming no cosmetic interventions, you inexorably find yourself back at square one, confused and relying once again on others for help with bodily functions.
Most of the interim is spent in adulthood, with its earnestness and challenge, hardship and strife, spiced at times with wonder and awe, Lord willing.
In popular culture nowadays there’s been a trend toward self-help coaching on aging, to make sure the later years are as healthy as possible, with infancy’s reprise minimized. The internet abounds with informal clubs, and quite a few explore methods of how to grow old better. The crux, from what I’ve seen, comes down to eating healthily and getting adequate exercise—not to mention getting and keeping free of self-destructive indulgences.
Now, with mechanical automation and supposed intelligent machines taking over the monotonous aspects of adulthood, as well as relieving the physical strain on one’s musculoskeletal system, there appears to be a dearth of meaningful things for adults to do. The chores once endured as a matter of survival are mostly long past. Leisure or leisure-like work have replaced joyless and often dangerous toil. What to do?
A significant proportion of Gen Z and Millennial cohorts have discovered a return to childhood—voluntarily, in this case. Drawing on nostalgia, the search for fun, and with plentiful discretionary incomes, they are creating a multi-billion-dollar boomlet in toymaking. As a result, companies like Mattel, Hasbro, Lego, and several newcomers are expanding their offerings away from the stagnant market for kids’ toys. They are coming up with items that appeal to the newish “kidult” segment.
The international market research firm Kadence International reports :
The fastest-growing consumer in the toy industry is not a kid. A new generation of adults is rewriting the rules of play, driving billions in annual sales and reshaping how toy brands approach product development and marketing. These buyers, known as kidults, are fueling growth as they seek nostalgia, collectibles, and high-end toys once marketed exclusively to children. Their spending habits have become a defining force in the industry, outpacing traditional toy buyers and reshaping market strategies.
There have been many stories covering the subject in recent years.
And now comes the AP with reporting in a similar vein in an article Adults relive the musical camaraderie of their youth at band camps reprised for grown-ups:
Whether they are looking to make friends, improve their skills or just take some time out for themselves after sending their own kids to camp and college, adults can find a variety of summer music programs across the United States, ranging from electronic, folk, rock ‘n’ roll and jazz to chamber and opera.
For many campers, it offers a way to relive the nostalgic musical experiences of their youth and make new social connections.
Taken together, these trends would seem to be in perfect alignment with this century’s other, earlier fashions, including dressing up like comic-book characters (cosplaying), dressing up like stuffed animals (furries), and needing pet animals for emotional support.
What does it all mean? I’m sure I don’t know. But that doesn’t prevent me from suspecting it’s an outgrowth of leisure-filled living.
And as with most fashion, I assume it will continue until it reaches its apogee and begins its decline.
Since the hard work has been done already by earlier generations, there’s going to be a lot of lifetime to spend doing something. One of those somethings seems to be turning politics into some sort of all-consuming lifestyle as political religion. That sort of politics is passionate and angry, and only fleetingly satisfying. If you’re wining today, you’ll be losing soon enough. Compromise—the coin of the political realm—feels a lot more like defeat. And so we get adults throwing tantrums like spoiled brats never taught good sportsmanship.
Reverting to childhood by escaping into toys, on the other hand… What’s the harm in discovering the joys of that age, rather than only the angry sandbox meltdowns because overgrown little Jonny or Jenny didn’t get his or her way?

Good morning. I enjoy building Lego. Also sticker books. Is that less "adult" than watching TV and drinking beer (wine, Scotch)? Oh, well ... gray hair don't care.
Raining here, 60s. I'll be leaving shortly - I do everything shortly, because I'm short - for the Spanish Pentecost retreat. The choir is serving breakfast, but not singing, which is a nice change.
We did a wedding yesterday for a 40-ish couple. As usual, they'd been legally married for many years and were finally having their church wedding. No disasters on the songs, and they seemed very happy.
Evening, all. Still raining, which is good. The Spanish Pentecost retreat was a success. We went through literally gallons of coffee - I think I made 15 pots, and we had to go to the grocery store, once for more coffee, and then for more even coffee and more creamer - since the temperature never got above 68 today, and it's a good thing a hot lunch was planned. We gave out a few foam containers of leftover rice and Mexican sweet bread, no more than a dozen, so the food amounts were just about right. We have a, "Come all," policy and trust the Spirit to make sure there's food for all.
The church kitchenette has mice again: I found droppings.
Gonzalo saw me bend over to the floor while I was using a broom and dustpan and was amazed that I can do that. Later, Oscar and Luis asked me, "Show us how how you can touch the floor!" I did not realize this was such an astonishing feat.
The guest musician wasn't as good as us, but he had an electric piano, which makes atmospheric sounds, and it was nice to not be performing, only making lots of coffee and doing the sound system and cleaning the bathroom and counting the collection and going to the grocery store. The collection was over $600, which is far more than our budgeted amount for the event, but the church's accounting system doesn't net. You can't say, "We spent $450 and took in $680," net $230 revenue. It's $450 expense, and the $680 is a fluke donation to the building fund, not an offset.
Sigh.